If you want to feel loved and respected, give up control.
如果你想要被愛和被尊重，放棄控制吧！
For in the love configuration, losing gives a gift that always returns.
在愛的天地裡，「輸」就是給了對方一份禮物，你必得著回報。
If you want to win arguments at home, learn to lose them.
你想在家裡贏得辯論，學習「輸」吧。
When you win a battle and your spouse submits, you have , paradoxically, lost.
當你贏得一場爭執，你的配偶屈服了，
事實上，相反地，你是大輸特輸。
