For in the love configuration, losing gives a gift that always returns.

在愛的天地裡，「輸」就是給了對方一份禮物，你必得著回報。

If you want to win arguments at home, learn to lose them.

你想在家裡贏得辯論，學習「輸」吧。

When you win a battle and your spouse submits, you have , paradoxically, lost.

當你贏得一場爭執，你的配偶屈服了，

事實上，相反地，你是大輸特輸。