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人際佳言

<DIV id=postmessage_383531 class=t_msgfont><SPAN id=iclickAdBody_Start name="iclickAdBody_Start"></SPAN>羅斯福說：成功公式中，最重要的一項因素是與人相處。<BR>洛克斐勒說：我付<SPAN><SPAN id=iCliCK_SafeGuard><SPAN style="BORDER-BOTTOM: #009900 2px dashed; PADDING-BOTTOM: 1px; BACKGROUND-COLOR: transparent; COLOR: #009900; CURSOR: pointer; TEXT-DECORATION: underline" id=word_高薪 onmouseover="m1116744202.action('over', '高薪', event, this)" onmouseout="m1116744202.action('out', '高薪', event, this)" onclick="m1116744202.action('click', '高薪', event, this)">高薪</SPAN></SPAN></SPAN>給處理人際關係的能力，遠超日光之下任何其他能力。<BR>保羅蓋帝說：一個主管，不管他擁有多少知識，如果他不能帶動人完成使命，他是毫無價值。<BR><BR>良好人際關係的七項紅利<BR>1.人脈網路成為你很有價值的資源。<BR>2.你有<SPAN><SPAN id=iCliCK_SafeGuard><SPAN style="BORDER-BOTTOM: #009900 2px dashed; PADDING-BOTTOM: 1px; BACKGROUND-COLOR: transparent; COLOR: #009900; CURSOR: pointer; TEXT-DECORATION: underline" id=word_機會 onmouseover="m1116744202.action('over', '機會', event, this)" onmouseout="m1116744202.action('out', '機會', event, this)" onclick="m1116744202.action('click', '機會', event, this)">機會</SPAN></SPAN></SPAN>成為優秀的領袖，人們樂意協助你。<BR>3.你能把智慧、精力集中在<SPAN><SPAN id=iCliCK_SafeGuard><SPAN style="BORDER-BOTTOM: #009900 2px dashed; PADDING-BOTTOM: 1px; BACKGROUND-COLOR: transparent; COLOR: #009900; CURSOR: pointer; TEXT-DECORATION: underline" id=word_創造 onmouseover="m1116744202.action('over', '創造', event, this)" onmouseout="m1116744202.action('out', '創造', event, this)" onclick="m1116744202.action('click', '創造', event, this)">創造</SPAN></SPAN></SPAN>性的<SPAN><SPAN id=iCliCK_SafeGuard><SPAN style="BORDER-BOTTOM: #009900 2px dashed; PADDING-BOTTOM: 1px; BACKGROUND-COLOR: transparent; COLOR: #009900; CURSOR: pointer; TEXT-DECORATION: underline" id=word_建設 onmouseover="m1116744202.action('over', '建設', event, this)" onmouseout="m1116744202.action('out', '建設', event, this)" onclick="m1116744202.action('click', '建設', event, this)">建設</SPAN></SPAN></SPAN>。<BR>4.憂煩緊張的人際關係常把情感力量消耗淨盡。<BR>5.你對自己較有自信，自我形像較佳。<BR>6.與你同事的人生產力較高。<BR>7.你會是快樂的人，心理比較健康。<BR>8.你擁有較佳成功機會。<BR><BR>你跟自己的關係，如何影響你跟別人的關係&nbsp;&nbsp;(低自我形像所引發的七個心理座標轉移症)<BR>看別人驕傲&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp; 其實是&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;自己自卑<BR>懷疑別人排斥&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;其實是&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;不能接納自己<BR>論斷別人&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp; 其實是&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;缺乏自我肯定<BR>玩弄別人感情&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;其實是&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;自己情感受過傷害<BR>喜歡糾正別人&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;其實是&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;其實是掩飾自己弱點<BR>看別人霸道&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;其實是&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;自己懼怕權威<BR>諂媚討好別人&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;其實是&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;缺乏自信<BR><BR>贏家與輸家的差異<BR>&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;　　　　　　　　輸 家&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp; 贏 家<BR><BR>看周圍的人&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;是競爭者&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp; 　是幫助者<BR>看敵人&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;　是一種威脅&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp; 　　是一種考驗<BR>看上司&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;　是討厭的工頭&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp; 　是可敬的教練<BR>看對手&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;　是摩擦的來源&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp; 　是靈感的來源<BR>看異己份子&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;是一種對立&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;　 是一種差異<BR>看抱怨者&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;是問題人物&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;　&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;是有特別需要的人<BR>看父母&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp; 　 是上一代的古董&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;是這一代的導師<BR>看雇工&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;　是公司賺錢的機器&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;是公司的家庭成員<BR><BR>內在自我形像與外在人際關係之間的對應關係<BR>1.你真誠地自我肯定，你更有雅量肯定別人。<BR>2.你真誠地愛自己，你更能真誠地愛別人。<BR>3.你擁有自尊，你更能尊重別人的自尊。<BR>4.你真誠地接納自己，你更能真誠地接納別人。<SPAN id=iclickAdBody_End name="iclickAdBody_End"></SPAN></DIV>
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