孩子鬧情緒 家有噴火龍
<p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" class="MsoNormal"><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: '新細明體','serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: '新細明體','serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">在超級市場或百貨公司，孩子吵著買想要的東西，若說不買，他便生氣哭鬧大聲尖叫；在家裡，要求孩子把電視關掉吃飯或收拾玩具準備洗澡，他便暴跳如雷，在地上打滾哭鬧；下班後接到老師電話，孩子在學校出手打了同學。</span></span></p>
<p style="line-height: 190%; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;" class="MsoNormal"><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: '新細明體','serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">家有幼兒，父母可能遇到上述狀況，常常不知所措，為了管孩子，最後情緒失控。</span><span style="line-height: 190%; font-family: 'Arial','sans-serif'; color: rgb(65, 65, 65); font-size: 11.5pt;"></span></p><p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" class="MsoNormal"><br><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體"><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" class="MsoNormal"><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: '新細明體','serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">孩子會有情緒問題，可能和以下因素有關，如過動、和其他孩子相處困難、喜歡辯解、挫折忍受度差、脾氣暴躁、不易接受改變、想法或行為僵化固執等。</span><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體"> <span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" class="MsoNormal"><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: '新細明體','serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">為了不讓孩子變成家裡的噴火龍，必須先找到孩子情緒的導火線，透過以下幾種方法，可在其情緒爆炸前，成功防範：</span><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體"> <span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" class="MsoNormal"><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體" lang="EN-US">1.</span><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: '新細明體','serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">注意最早的警訊：</span><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體"> <span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" class="MsoNormal"><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: '新細明體','serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">包含眼神、姿勢、語氣、以及關鍵話語。他可能會說：「我沒辦法」、「我討厭你」或在失控前咬緊牙齒、露出冰冷的眼神。</span><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體"> <span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" class="MsoNormal"><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體" lang="EN-US">2.</span><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: '新細明體','serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">轉移注意力：</span><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體"> <span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" class="MsoNormal"><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: '新細明體','serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">利用話語讓孩子離開情緒的現場。例如你想跟他說：「你現在必須寫功課」，不如說：「我們先喝杯果汁或吃點餅乾再把功課拿出來寫吧。」</span><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體"> <span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" class="MsoNormal"><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體" lang="EN-US">3.</span><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: '新細明體','serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">保持冷靜：</span><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體"> <span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" class="MsoNormal"><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: '新細明體','serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">與孩子維持眼神的接觸，輕輕握住他的手或者輕撫他的背部，試著從孩子的角度看事情，讓孩子知道您瞭解他的憤怒以及害怕。</span><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體"> <span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" class="MsoNormal"><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體" lang="EN-US">4.</span><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: '新細明體','serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">重覆安慰的話語：</span><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體"> <span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" class="MsoNormal"><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: '新細明體','serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">委婉且簡短的字句有極大的安撫效果。</span><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體"> <span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" class="MsoNormal"><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體" lang="EN-US">5.</span><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: '新細明體','serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">將孩子的行為分成紅、黃、綠</span><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體"> </span><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: '新細明體','serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">三種等級：</span><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體"> <span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" class="MsoNormal"><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: '新細明體','serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">決定哪些行為要堅持說「不」，這是紅色等級；哪些行為雖重要但不值得冒險與他抗爭，需適度的處理，這是黃色；哪些是可以不管的行為，這列為綠色。</span><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體"> <span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" class="MsoNormal"><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: '新細明體','serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">盡可能從旁協助孩子培養調整情緒的能力，鼓勵孩子表現正向行為，第一步確認什麼是正向行為。第二步告訴孩子這樣做是負責任的表現。第三步稱讚孩子。</span><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體"> <span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" class="MsoNormal"><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體" lang="EN-US">6.</span><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: '新細明體','serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">將他必須遵守的命令分成許多小步驟：</span><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體"> <span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" class="MsoNormal"><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: '新細明體','serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">一次給予一個步驟，慢慢引導到目標的行為。</span><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體"> <span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" class="MsoNormal"><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體" lang="EN-US">7.</span><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: '新細明體','serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">試著讚美的次數超過責備。</span><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體"> <span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" class="MsoNormal"><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體" lang="EN-US">8.</span><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: '新細明體','serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">給孩子選擇而非命令：</span><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體"> <span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" class="MsoNormal"><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: '新細明體','serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">例如：「馬上去刷牙上床睡覺」，改成：「上床睡覺前你想先做什麼？刷牙還是洗臉？」</span><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體"> <span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" class="MsoNormal"><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體" lang="EN-US">9.</span><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: '新細明體','serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">教導孩子放鬆的技巧：</span><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體"> <span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" class="MsoNormal"><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: '新細明體','serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">例如：「我們一起做</span><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體" lang="EN-US">3</span><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: '新細明體','serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">次深呼吸，你再聽媽媽說！」</span><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體"> <span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" class="MsoNormal"><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體" lang="EN-US">10.</span><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: '新細明體','serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">不要突然改變事情，讓孩子預先知道會有所改變。</span><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體"> <span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" class="MsoNormal"><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: '新細明體','serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">孩子的成長過程中，情緒控制及人格養成會因家長的處理方式不同，有所改變，透過上述方法，希望馴服家中的噴火龍，讓孩子理解並克服自己的情緒行為。</span><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體"> <span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>