溺愛期 請無條件關愛孩子！
<p style="line-height: 190%; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;" class="MsoNormal"><span style="line-height: 190%; font-family: '新細明體','serif'; color: rgb(65, 65, 65); font-size: 11.5pt;">【內容摘自《你的孩子再這樣下去就糟了！》，作者諸富祥彥／譯者葉韋利，新手父母出版】</span></p><p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" class="MsoNormal"><br><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: '新細明體','serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"></span><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體" lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" class="MsoNormal"><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: '新細明體','serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">接下來將進入討論具體的「孩子心智教育方法」。</span><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體" lang="EN-US"> <o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" class="MsoNormal"><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: '新細明體','serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">育兒分成下列三個階段。</span><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體" lang="EN-US"><br></span><b><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: 細明體; COLOR: #0074ad; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 細明體; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">①</span></b><b><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: '新細明體','serif'; COLOR: #0074ad; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">溺愛期：</span></b><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: '新細明體','serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">六歲之前的學齡前，也就是嬰幼兒期。</span><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體" lang="EN-US"><br></span><b><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: 細明體; COLOR: #0074ad; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 細明體; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">②</span></b><b><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: '新細明體','serif'; COLOR: #0074ad; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">教養期：</span></b><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: '新細明體','serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">六到十歲，也就是兒童期。</span><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體" lang="EN-US"><br></span><b><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: 細明體; COLOR: #0074ad; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 細明體; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">③</span></b><b><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: '新細明體','serif'; COLOR: #0074ad; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">守護期：</span></b><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: '新細明體','serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">十到十二歲之後，十八歲之前，也就是青春期。</span><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體" lang="EN-US"> <o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" class="MsoNormal"><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: '新細明體','serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">父母必須根據這三個階段，採取適合的方式來面對孩子。其中最重要的就是：</span><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體" lang="EN-US"> <o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" class="MsoNormal"><b><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: 細明體; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 細明體; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">①</span></b><b><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: '新細明體','serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">溺愛期：這段時期的重點是，請母親無條件的關愛孩子，不用想太多。</span></b><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體" lang="EN-US"> <o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" class="MsoNormal"><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: '新細明體','serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">這個階段讓孩子實際體會到「他人深愛自己」、「自我存在價值」是很重要的尤其孩子在媽媽源源不斷的關愛中，能產生對父母，乃至於對這個世界的信任與安心。</span><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體" lang="EN-US"> <o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" class="MsoNormal"><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: '新細明體','serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">然後，孩子就能獲得自我肯定，認為「自己是值得生存的人」。有了自我肯定，就等於打穩了心靈的基礎，才能培養成「在緊要關頭能勇往直前」的人。</span><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體" lang="EN-US"> <o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" class="MsoNormal"><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: '新細明體','serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">為什麼媽媽的愛在建構心靈基礎時具有重要意義呢？因為實際感受到媽媽滿滿的愛，就是心靈一大寄託，了解到「無論發生什麼事，都有媽媽守護」，或是「緊要關頭還有媽媽」。</span><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體" lang="EN-US"> <o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" class="MsoNormal"><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: '新細明體','serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">這麼一來，就算有些辛苦，遇到不開心的狀況，依舊能繼續努力，也就能一鼓作氣，勇往直前。能夠一鼓作氣、勇往直前，對於生存是很重要的。在前面第</span><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體" lang="EN-US">1</span><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: '新細明體','serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">、</span><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體" lang="EN-US">2</span><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: '新細明體','serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">章曾提到，現在有越來越多無法忍受緊張感覺的年輕人，在「關鍵時刻」選擇逃避。比方說，每次乖乖來上課，但一到考試那個月就不出現，最後只得留級；在求職過程中順利度過好幾關，卻在最重要的面試當天不見人影</span><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體" lang="EN-US">……</span><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: '新細明體','serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">。</span><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體" lang="EN-US"> <o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" class="MsoNormal"><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: '新細明體','serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">我跟這些人談過之後，都覺得他們「沒有打好心靈的基礎」。有個學生說：「不管我再怎麼努力回想，都想不出任何小時候跟媽媽玩得很開心的片段，記得的只有被罵得很慘</span><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體" lang="EN-US">……</span><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: '新細明體','serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">。」</span><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體" lang="EN-US"> <o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" class="MsoNormal"><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: '新細明體','serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">因此，<b>在這個時期特別要給孩子滿滿的愛，盡量越多越好。</b>那麼，教養的問題該怎麼辦呢？教養放在之後也不要緊，等到孩子六歲之後還不晚。六歲之前不用擔心教養的問題，只要不斷灌注父母的愛，教養可以等到之後再補救。但六歲之前就該打好的「心靈基礎」，錯失之後，可是一輩子都無法再挽回。</span><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體" lang="EN-US"> <o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" class="MsoNormal"><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: '新細明體','serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">我曾讀過一篇有關義大利育兒的短文集，其中寫著：「老爺爺說，『六歲以前的小孩，就該在淋著砂糖、蜂蜜和楓糖下養育』。」大概就是這種感覺。（只是黏糊糊的，好像不容易抱。）</span><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體" lang="EN-US"> <o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" class="MsoNormal"><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: '新細明體','serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">孩子尤其需要接觸，多給孩子擁抱，多到像黏膩得化不開的肢體接觸。兒童十歲之前大部分的心理問題，不少都能靠著母親的觸摸解決。</span><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體" lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" class="MsoNormal"><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: '新細明體','serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">緊緊擁抱心愛的小孩：</span><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體" lang="EN-US"> <o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" class="MsoNormal"><b><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: '新細明體','serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">「</span></b><b><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體" lang="EN-US">○○</span></b><b><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: '新細明體','serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">寶貝，你最可愛了！」</span></b><b><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體" lang="EN-US"><br></span></b><b><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: '新細明體','serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">「</span></b><b><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體" lang="EN-US">○○</span></b><b><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: '新細明體','serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">，你是媽媽的寶貝。媽媽最喜歡你！來，親一個！」就像這樣，看著小孩的眼睛笑著說。隨時保持這種狀態。</span></b><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體" lang="EN-US"> <o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" class="MsoNormal"><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: '新細明體','serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">有個母親聽我說完後反駁。</span><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體" lang="EN-US"> <o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" class="MsoNormal"><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: '新細明體','serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">「但這樣不會把小孩慣壞嗎？我婆婆會說，不好好管教的話，小孩長大之後就沒救了。」</span><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體" lang="EN-US"> <o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" class="MsoNormal"><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: '新細明體','serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">對於婆婆這種話，不妨左耳進、右耳出，聽過就算了。</span><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 190%; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體" lang="EN-US"> <o:p></o:p></span></p><span style="FONT-FAMILY: '新細明體','serif'; COLOR: #414141; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">啊，不過回答的時候還是要面帶笑容：「原來是這樣啊！我會多留意的！」</span>