轉貼:幾歲結婚不太重要～(上)
<SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 微??行楷; COLOR: maroon; FONT-WEIGHT: normal; mso-ascii-font-family: ">套句邱議瑩的話﹕我沒結婚﹐但身心健全﹗</SPAN><STRONG><SPAN style="COLOR: maroon; FONT-WEIGHT: normal; mso-fareast-font-family: 微??行楷" lang=EN-US> </SPAN></STRONG><B><SPAN style="COLOR: maroon; mso-fareast-font-family: 微??行楷" lang=EN-US> </SPAN></B><B><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; COLOR: maroon; FONT-SIZE: 9pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 微??行楷" lang=EN-US></SPAN></B>
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<P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><STRONG><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; COLOR: navy; mso-ascii-font-family: ">二十八﹑九歲那年﹐很想結婚﹐只是苦無合適的對象﹐</SPAN><SPAN style="COLOR: navy"> </SPAN></STRONG><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; COLOR: navy" lang=EN-US></SPAN></P>
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<P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><STRONG><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; COLOR: navy; mso-ascii-font-family: ">你問我﹕什麼叫「合適」</SPAN><SPAN style="COLOR: navy" lang=EN-US>? </SPAN></STRONG><SPAN style="COLOR: navy" lang=EN-US></SPAN></P>
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<P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><STRONG><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; COLOR: navy; mso-ascii-font-family: ">我想﹐或者說﹐自己真正想要的是什麼。</SPAN><SPAN style="COLOR: navy"> </SPAN></STRONG><SPAN style="COLOR: navy" lang=EN-US></SPAN></P>
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<P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><STRONG><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; COLOR: navy; mso-ascii-font-family: ">我認為﹐不太需要把擇偶條件</SPAN><SPAN style="COLOR: navy" lang=EN-US>1234......</SPAN></STRONG><STRONG><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; COLOR: navy; mso-ascii-font-family: ">列張單子﹐</SPAN><SPAN style="COLOR: navy"> </SPAN></STRONG><SPAN style="COLOR: navy" lang=EN-US></SPAN></P>
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<P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><STRONG><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; COLOR: navy; mso-ascii-font-family: ">貼在浴室的鏡子上﹐每天照本宣科一番。</SPAN><SPAN style="COLOR: navy"> </SPAN></STRONG><SPAN style="COLOR: navy" lang=EN-US></SPAN></P>
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<P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; COLOR: green; mso-ascii-font-family: ">選擇對象的標準並非放諸四海皆準﹐而是因</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; COLOR: #339966; mso-ascii-font-family: ">人而異的</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; COLOR: olive; mso-ascii-font-family: ">。</SPAN><SPAN style="COLOR: navy" lang=EN-US> </SPAN></P>
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<P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; COLOR: navy; mso-ascii-font-family: ">曾有人問我﹕<STRONG>假如有一天﹐真有一位這麼好的人站在你面前﹐你可配得上他﹖</STRONG></SPAN><SPAN style="COLOR: navy" lang=EN-US> </SPAN></P>
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<P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; COLOR: navy; mso-ascii-font-family: ">驚聞此語﹐嚇得我全身冒汗﹗是呀﹐上帝為什麼要派一個好人來受我的折磨呢﹖</SPAN><SPAN style="COLOR: navy" lang=EN-US> </SPAN></P>
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<P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; COLOR: navy; mso-ascii-font-family: ">所以諸君﹐</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; COLOR: #339966; mso-ascii-font-family: ">預備自己成為一個合適的人﹐這是很重要的﹐</SPAN><SPAN style="COLOR: #339966" lang=EN-US> </SPAN></P>
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<P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; COLOR: #339966; mso-ascii-font-family: ">我們挑別人﹐別人同樣也挑我們哪。</SPAN><SPAN style="COLOR: #339966" lang=EN-US> </SPAN></P>
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<P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><SPAN style="COLOR: navy" lang=EN-US>[</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; COLOR: navy; mso-ascii-font-family: ">成為合適的人</SPAN><SPAN style="COLOR: navy" lang=EN-US>] </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; COLOR: navy; mso-ascii-font-family: ">如何預備自己﹖</SPAN><SPAN style="COLOR: navy" lang=EN-US> </SPAN></P>
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<P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; COLOR: navy; mso-ascii-font-family: ">學習做一個快樂的單身族。</SPAN><SPAN style="COLOR: navy" lang=EN-US> </SPAN></P>
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<P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; COLOR: navy; mso-ascii-font-family: ">曾有高人指點我﹕你要能做一個快樂的小姐﹐</SPAN><SPAN style="COLOR: navy" lang=EN-US> </SPAN></P>
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<P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoNormal><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; COLOR: navy; mso-ascii-font-family: ">將來才有可能成為快樂的妻子</SPAN><SPAN style="COLOR: navy" lang=EN-US> </SPAN></P>